WhitneyWill He Cheat on You?
March 26th 2009 15:39
You can consider the following life and lifestyle factors when trying to decide if you think your man will cheat on you.
Growing up
* Was he a spoiled child?
* Do his parents baby him?
* Has he ever mentioned, or bragged, about cheating on an exam or paper?
If he has sailed through life, growing up with nothing to worry about and pretty smoothe waters, then he's probably not aware of the true consequences of life and of cheating. Yes, he may know them, but he probably doesn't think that he will ever experience any consequences because he's always been bailed out before.
Career
* Does he work mostly with women?
* Does he hold late hours with work, clients, or business trips?
* Does he have a high income?
Men are more often likely to cheat with co-workers than a random women he met at the store, so although it is great your man has ambitions and has a deep pocket, you want to watch out for an accident because the chances are higher when a man has more money. But, if he frequently invites you along to business meetings or to the office, and seems relatively happy when you call him while he's at work, then I wouldn't worry as much.
Smooth Talker
* Can he talk his way out of anything?
* Does he make extra effort to charm everyone?
* Does he insist on making rounds when at parties or social settings?
If your man is a charmer, then just be patient. Watch how he acts in these situations and with you while in the situations. If he's more or less interested in speaking with others and brushes you off, then you have a tad more to worry. Just remember that charmers do meet a lot of women. Just make sure that you get those side glances when at the party and the occasional nod, wink, or smile.
His Friends
* Does he typically hang with single guys?
* Do his friends encourage him to join them for guy-only activities?
* Do his friends have problems staying in relationships?
Clubs, bars, and parties are great places to meet women, and if your man's friends constantly want him to go with them, you have higher chances of an affair. Of course, not all men will make the mistake, but the odds are higher. His friends probably won't stop him from making out or taking another woman home, especially if they themselves have problems staying in relationships, so you can't rely on his friends to keep him faithful to you, and you definitely can't rely on them to tell you the truth. Just make sure that you're included some of the times when he hangs with his buds.
Remember there are always acceptions to the rules...
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