WhitneyWhy do men cheat?
March 28th 2009 15:40
M. Gary Neuman surveyed about 200 men what makes men cheat on women, and he wrote it all down in his book- The Truth about Cheating: Why Men Stray and What You Can Do to Prevent It. These men are cheating and non-cheating men so that the statistics are more accurate, or at least as accurate as it can get.
Here are some of the findings as to why men cheat and what they are thinking...
48% of men cheat because of emotional dissatisfaction versus physical dissatisfaction. Only about 8% of men said they were sexually dissatisfied in their current relationship.
66% of cheating men said they felt guild during the affair, and about 68% of men who have cheated never thought that they would be unfaithful in a relationship. So, never put it past him to cheat.
77% of cheating men have a friend who has or is cheating, so because his friend may be a good guy in other areas, your man may feel it is ok to cheat because his friend has or is doing it. Now you can't prevent your man from hanging out with other men who are unfaithful, but you can choose your circle of friends carefully.
40% of cheating men met the other woman while at work. Most of the time it's a female who looks up to him and compliments him, which is why it's important that you compliment and give praise to you man at home. Men want compliments just as much as women do.
12% of men found that the other woman was more attractive than their steady girlfriend or wife, so that shows that men don't always stray because they think they can get better sex with a better looking woman.
6% of men said that they had relations with another woman the same day or night after meeting her, whereas 73% got to know the other woman for over a month before sleeping with her, giving you plenty of warning signs to watch out for before the deed happens.
Signs that your man may cheat on you or already is:
* Spends more time away from home
* Stops asking for sex
* Picks fights more frequently
* Avoids your calls and texts
Most men will deny thinking about cheating, especially if nothing has occurred yet, but you want to take charge of what you can control, which is your own behavior, when in the situation. Show your appreciation to your man, prioritize time together, and initiate sexual relations more. Make sure that he knows you care about him, and give him a reason to keep you in his mind all the time.
Here are some of the findings as to why men cheat and what they are thinking...
48% of men cheat because of emotional dissatisfaction versus physical dissatisfaction. Only about 8% of men said they were sexually dissatisfied in their current relationship.
66% of cheating men said they felt guild during the affair, and about 68% of men who have cheated never thought that they would be unfaithful in a relationship. So, never put it past him to cheat.
77% of cheating men have a friend who has or is cheating, so because his friend may be a good guy in other areas, your man may feel it is ok to cheat because his friend has or is doing it. Now you can't prevent your man from hanging out with other men who are unfaithful, but you can choose your circle of friends carefully.
40% of cheating men met the other woman while at work. Most of the time it's a female who looks up to him and compliments him, which is why it's important that you compliment and give praise to you man at home. Men want compliments just as much as women do.
12% of men found that the other woman was more attractive than their steady girlfriend or wife, so that shows that men don't always stray because they think they can get better sex with a better looking woman.
6% of men said that they had relations with another woman the same day or night after meeting her, whereas 73% got to know the other woman for over a month before sleeping with her, giving you plenty of warning signs to watch out for before the deed happens.
Signs that your man may cheat on you or already is:
* Spends more time away from home
* Stops asking for sex
* Picks fights more frequently
* Avoids your calls and texts
Most men will deny thinking about cheating, especially if nothing has occurred yet, but you want to take charge of what you can control, which is your own behavior, when in the situation. Show your appreciation to your man, prioritize time together, and initiate sexual relations more. Make sure that he knows you care about him, and give him a reason to keep you in his mind all the time.
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