WhitneyTalking to Men - What They Want to Hear
November 12th 2011 00:25
Men are hard to read sometimes, but there are things that they do and don't want to hear, especially on the first few dates... Before they decide if they want you to stick around.
They want to hear "then what happened" when they're telling stories because they want to think that you're interested and they want to believe that they're interesting.
"That's impressive" will feed a man's ego, which is definitely something that they all enjoy.
Use your manners, so 'thank you,' 'please', etc. are great terms to use on your date. Believe it or not, but men do not like rude women.
"Can I have your opinion" is a phrase that men like and don't like. They tend to like it because it makes them think that their opinion matters to you, but they do hate it because depending on what you're asking, he may not feel like he is going to answer right.
You never want to start conversations off using "my ex-boyfriend" or "can I take this call." You should also avoid any topics and phrases that include marriage, having children, abortion, etc. You can easily freak off a guy if you're on the first few dates with these topics.
And, depending on the guy, watch how much you talk about you 'cute shoes' or 'elegant dress.' You just can't gush hours, much less too many minutes on shopping and hair with men.
They want to hear "then what happened" when they're telling stories because they want to think that you're interested and they want to believe that they're interesting.
"That's impressive" will feed a man's ego, which is definitely something that they all enjoy.
Use your manners, so 'thank you,' 'please', etc. are great terms to use on your date. Believe it or not, but men do not like rude women.
"Can I have your opinion" is a phrase that men like and don't like. They tend to like it because it makes them think that their opinion matters to you, but they do hate it because depending on what you're asking, he may not feel like he is going to answer right.
You never want to start conversations off using "my ex-boyfriend" or "can I take this call." You should also avoid any topics and phrases that include marriage, having children, abortion, etc. You can easily freak off a guy if you're on the first few dates with these topics.
And, depending on the guy, watch how much you talk about you 'cute shoes' or 'elegant dress.' You just can't gush hours, much less too many minutes on shopping and hair with men.
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