WhitneyWait to Have Sex in a New Relationship
November 24th 2009 18:16
When starting a new relationship, and while just dating period, it's always a big question as to when to start having sex with someone. You should always wait until you're ready and you feel comfortable with the person, but you'll find that it really is a big benefit to you and the relationship to wait as long as you can.
Before taking off your chastity belt and untying the ribbon to your special package, you want to consider the benefits of waiting.
1. You can weed out the A-holes. Jerks want you for what's in your pants. Keep that in mind, and if you can make the guy wait without him getting all pissy and upset, then he's probably a keeper. If he doesn't try to rush you, he's a keeper. By withholding, you can easily weed out those who just want you for sex.
2. If you wait, you will know each other better, which means there will be more of a connection, and the sex will potentially be better. The more comfortable you are with someone, the more pleasure yo can potentially have.
3. By waiting, you are building tension. Each date gets you closer and closer to that moment, but neither of you will really know when it'll happen. The more sexual tension builds up, the more intense the desire gets.
4. You'll be able to determine whether it'll be a one night stand or not when you wait. You'll more than likely get the call back because you've raised your self-respect by not jumping your date the first chance you get, which in a way all leads back to number one- weeding out the jerks.
5. Once you have sex, you just can't take it back and you can't move backward, only forward. It's much easier to move on than it is to move backward. The clock doesn't turn that way once you have sex. You don't want to end up like the woman on the screen, crying in a hot shower, trying to wash away the mistake.
When you wait to have sex, you are potentially building a stronger, longer lasting relationship. There's always right timing in a relationship with every new aspect and stepping stone. Being intimate does not necessarily mean sex. You can show your affection and make it clear you're attracted to the other person by other means than getting naked and sweaty together.
There's never a wrong reason to wait before having sex with a new partner.
1. You can weed out the A-holes. Jerks want you for what's in your pants. Keep that in mind, and if you can make the guy wait without him getting all pissy and upset, then he's probably a keeper. If he doesn't try to rush you, he's a keeper. By withholding, you can easily weed out those who just want you for sex.
2. If you wait, you will know each other better, which means there will be more of a connection, and the sex will potentially be better. The more comfortable you are with someone, the more pleasure yo can potentially have.
3. By waiting, you are building tension. Each date gets you closer and closer to that moment, but neither of you will really know when it'll happen. The more sexual tension builds up, the more intense the desire gets.
4. You'll be able to determine whether it'll be a one night stand or not when you wait. You'll more than likely get the call back because you've raised your self-respect by not jumping your date the first chance you get, which in a way all leads back to number one- weeding out the jerks.
5. Once you have sex, you just can't take it back and you can't move backward, only forward. It's much easier to move on than it is to move backward. The clock doesn't turn that way once you have sex. You don't want to end up like the woman on the screen, crying in a hot shower, trying to wash away the mistake.
When you wait to have sex, you are potentially building a stronger, longer lasting relationship. There's always right timing in a relationship with every new aspect and stepping stone. Being intimate does not necessarily mean sex. You can show your affection and make it clear you're attracted to the other person by other means than getting naked and sweaty together.
There's never a wrong reason to wait before having sex with a new partner.
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Comment by Sarah Santos
But is it only sex, or do they want more? You can't tell unless you wait.
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