WhitneyWhen to Tell Him 'I Love You'
April 14th 2009 20:31
You want to make sure that you mean it and that you're ready for what the next step in your relationship brings. If "I love you" is said too early in a relationship, you may find that the relationships ends with, "we moved too fast and I don't think we're ready for this, which isn't what you want to hear or say to someone.
You want to make sure that you're mentally prepared for whatever response you get in return, especially if you're not sure whether he feels the same way about you. You are putting yourself in a vulnerable situation, and you want to make sure that you are mentally able to cope with whatever response that you get.
When you think that it is time to say the 'L' word, you don't want to blurt it out, but at the same time you don't want to stage it too much. It's best to leave it as natural as possible.
It is hard to tell you when is the perfect time or how to to go about telling him that you love him, as when you get to that point in your relationship, you will know that it's time for those three little words.
Although, it is a little staged, my best friend had the cutest way to telling his girlfriend that he loves her. He set up clues around her apartment as to their first kiss, first this, first that. and basically set up up on a scavenger hunt until she got the letters and was able to put them together. And, of course when she had it all set up, they said 'I love you.' This worked for him and his girlfriend, but I don't know if it will work for every girl. Personally, it would be too much work for me.
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Comment by SpikeTheLobster
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Personally, I like post-its: leaving one on the bathroom mirror or the side of the kettle with a little heart drawn on it or a message goes a long way to showing your partner you care. They keep finding these little messages randomly, out of the blue.
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The second girl that ever told me she love me was in Uni and my response was exactly the same, because she was in an abusive relationship in the time and she couldn't leave the jerk ass she was dating, despite the fact I told her to dump the ass hole for a million times already. She took back her "I love you", after she said it for 3 times in a roll, because evertime she said I love you, my response was "What did you said?", in a very suprise manner and I think there might be something wrong with my ears.
Comment by Whitney
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Johnny, Agreed as long as you are ready, there's no reason to plan out how or when you're going to say it.
Peter, it sounds like girls love you.
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Comment by Whitney
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