WhitneyHow Should I Feel if My Boyfriend has Many Girl Friends
June 27th 2009 13:33
Sometimes guys just have a lot of female friends. Some even have more friends that are girls than friends that are guys. Some guys just get along better with females. There's really nothing wrong about it, as long as he's not abusing the situation and causing problems in the relationship because of the extra female friends.
If he's spending more time with you and more time talking to you than with them, then don't worry, but if he's talking to them on the phone and hanging out with them frequently, more so than he is with you, then there may be cause for a problem.
It's natural to be jealous, but you want to be careful of being overly jealous, which could start more problems than your boyfriend having female friends.
For the most part, no one can tell you have to feel or how to react, as it will all depend on your relationship and the strength thereof. The best advice that one can give you is to calmly talk to your boyfriend about the situation, and have an open discussion about it.
If he's spending more time with you and more time talking to you than with them, then don't worry, but if he's talking to them on the phone and hanging out with them frequently, more so than he is with you, then there may be cause for a problem.
It's natural to be jealous, but you want to be careful of being overly jealous, which could start more problems than your boyfriend having female friends.
For the most part, no one can tell you have to feel or how to react, as it will all depend on your relationship and the strength thereof. The best advice that one can give you is to calmly talk to your boyfriend about the situation, and have an open discussion about it.
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Besides, I would have no right to complain, as most of my close friends are male.
Comment by Anonymous
1) look around, at the couples you know. How many have cheated or been cheated on?
2) I worked with my boyfriend of 4.5 years, in a store of girls and few guys. Some nights I couldn't make it to the group fun and didn't think too much about it. Months later, I've found that my boyfriend was dating a common friend for all those months in between.
3) Men who put themselves into situations where they are vulnerable to preying women are at that much more of a risk of cheating than the AVERAGE dopey man. No offense!