WhitneyWhat Makes a Man Irresistible?
August 20th 2009 20:44
A man is not just a man because if that were true, it would be so much easier to find the man that is perfect for you. There are traits that make a man stand out more, and it's not always chiseled abs, education, great job, and a healthy eater. Yea those things are nothing to complain about by any means, but there are traits that most women will find irresistible, whether they have realized it or not.
The Wink- Somehow, some guys have the perfect wink down pat. There really is an art to getting it just right. It's suave and smoky rather than cheeky and laughable. If a man is comfortable at giving the wink with ease, there's a definite sign that hes interested, but it takes work at timing the wink just right.
Calmness- A calm man's presence is lovely. He's not hyper, stressed, or always in a frenzy not matter how busy he may be or what excuse he has. A steady and peaceful face and air about a man shows he can keep control, especially when we (the women) can't.
He takes care of himself- A man that keeps himself in relatively good shape, shows a woman that he knows how to care for himself. He has his health in mind. He's active, working out maybe, and it's the idea that if he takes care of himself, he may take care of his partner or at least keep her motivated to take care of herself just as well.
Style- It doesn't matter what style he has, but as long as he can do a little more with his attire than throw on a pair of jeans and a shirt. No matter what style you're looking for, if the guy can pull it off with ease, that's more attractive, whether it's the new 'it' style, clean-cut, goth, etc., as long as he gives the appearance he took more than two seconds to pick out his clothes.
Scent- It's really all in the nose. Women and men are attracted to scent, whether it's the hormones and natural body scent that a person puts off or the mix of a nice cologne. A light spray of a good cologne can make all the difference.
Affectionate- Men that are at least a little affectionate top those who aren't. It doesn't have to be affectionate through words at all times, but body language and the simple signs. A guy who grabs for a females hand while driving or gives a simple kiss on the cheek or forehead out of the blue, can be sexy (of course as long as the kiss doesn't feel like a friendship kiss but not trying to suck your face off either).
Laughter- Comedy is enticing and a man with a sense of humor is sexy. A fun-loving man who's not afraid to laugh out loud is great, but watch out for the manly insecure humor of putting others down. Don't change yourself because there will be someone who likes your humor style, but keep in mind that that not all women find slap-stick comedy appealing.
The Wink- Somehow, some guys have the perfect wink down pat. There really is an art to getting it just right. It's suave and smoky rather than cheeky and laughable. If a man is comfortable at giving the wink with ease, there's a definite sign that hes interested, but it takes work at timing the wink just right.
Calmness- A calm man's presence is lovely. He's not hyper, stressed, or always in a frenzy not matter how busy he may be or what excuse he has. A steady and peaceful face and air about a man shows he can keep control, especially when we (the women) can't.
Style- It doesn't matter what style he has, but as long as he can do a little more with his attire than throw on a pair of jeans and a shirt. No matter what style you're looking for, if the guy can pull it off with ease, that's more attractive, whether it's the new 'it' style, clean-cut, goth, etc., as long as he gives the appearance he took more than two seconds to pick out his clothes.
Scent- It's really all in the nose. Women and men are attracted to scent, whether it's the hormones and natural body scent that a person puts off or the mix of a nice cologne. A light spray of a good cologne can make all the difference.
Affectionate- Men that are at least a little affectionate top those who aren't. It doesn't have to be affectionate through words at all times, but body language and the simple signs. A guy who grabs for a females hand while driving or gives a simple kiss on the cheek or forehead out of the blue, can be sexy (of course as long as the kiss doesn't feel like a friendship kiss but not trying to suck your face off either).
Laughter- Comedy is enticing and a man with a sense of humor is sexy. A fun-loving man who's not afraid to laugh out loud is great, but watch out for the manly insecure humor of putting others down. Don't change yourself because there will be someone who likes your humor style, but keep in mind that that not all women find slap-stick comedy appealing.
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Comment by Journeywoman
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For me, it's all about genuine confidence. My bf is so confident in himself and doesn't give a toss about what others think of him, and for me, that is irresistible. He doesn't get caught up in petty issues either, and he's the least moody man I've ever known. In my view, he's perfect.
Of course, every girl's idea of what's irresistible will be different, but this is a good start.
Comment by Morgan Bell
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Maybe the interest is another main factor as well?
Comment by Whitney
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Morgan, silence is good. Ha.
Wilson, interests is good to have in common for sure.
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