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Single Christian Looking for Love

January 12th 2010 21:52
If you're a single Christian looking for someone with your same values, it may be hard to find that right man. When you work, go to school, and socialize with the same basic people all the time, it can be hard to go outside of that box.

Well, Christian Singles is a great online dating site for Christian men and women. You'll be able to find genuine people who want the same thing in life as you to - to lead a Christian life.

Just be careful. When meeting people online, you don't know who and what you're really getting and meeting. You don't want to just look at a picture and set a date to meet. It's recommended that you talk online, via texts, and even on the phone, many times before you ever meet. You want to make sure that you're comfortable with whoever it is you're talking to.

Also, make sure that when you're ready to meet the potential love of the rest of your life, that you set a public meeting place, and make sure that someone knows where you will be and when just in case.

You want to make sure that you keep your safety at heart. No matter how desperate you may feel that you are for a man in your life with the same morals and values as you, never let your safety slip out of the window. Not everyone online is legit, and it's rather sad, but some people will take advantage of Christians who are looking to meet their soul mate.

There are a lot of crazies out there, but if you want to give online dating a try, and you're a true Christian, definitely check out ChristianSingles.com



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Does Your Boyfriend Love You?

December 26th 2009 16:12
Sometimes it can be hard to figure out whether or not your boyfriend really loves you or not. You don't want to get too far into a relationship with your feelings growing and his still teetering on commitment issues. It's better to figure things out sooner than later. For the most part, you can use your intuition as to whether or not the feelings are mutual, but it's nice to know it 100 percent for sure. Remember that actions really do speak louder than words, so even if he says it, do his actions show you that he really does love you?

You will find that when trying to figure out what your boyfriend is saying can be hard or simple. It's really a crap shot. First off, though, men are usually pretty sincere when they tell you they're feelings. Look him in his eyes, and if he's looking you right back in the eye, he's probably being honest. If he's looking all over the place, then I'd be a little leery.

If your boyfriend really loves you, he will make time for you. He'll make you his number one priority and everything else will and can take a back seat. He'll be there when you need him most.


Your boyfriend will respect you. Men respect people they love. He'll talk to you about personal issues, family problems, and he'll share his feelings with you, especially if you're involved. If you're boyfriend really loves you, he'll be there to back you up and he'll respect whatever path you choose to take in life (of course hoping that it includes him).

A man who loves his girlfriend will not forget important days, whether it's your anniversary, birthday, or an important appointment or meeting.

If you're not 100 percent that your boyfriend loves you, talk to him. If you need that extra reassurance, a boyfriend who truly loves you will give you that without any hesitation.

Hot to Know if Your Boyfriend Loves You


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Sex is Bad on Women's Health

December 9th 2009 13:36
Well, not really and truly, but sex without an orgasm can be potentially bad for a woman's health. If a woman doesn't experience an orgasm during sex, she can develop diseases such as mastopathy or myoma due to stagnate blood.

When the woman doesn't have an orgasm, the body undergoes serious stress. The arousal leads to increased levels of estrogen and blood that surges through the reproductive organs. Without an orgasm, the blood will sit there, but during an orgasm, the blood is removed and the body is cleaned of pathogenic bacteria.

If the woman doesn't experience an orgasm, and the blood sits there, various diseases can develop.

It's already been proven that men who don't achieve an orgasm during sex can have their lifespan cut short, where men who do experience orgasms can live nearly twice as long as those who rarely experience it.

The number of times and how often you have sex isn't that important in regards to health, but it is thought that those people who are intimate as often as possible maintain better health and youth. You just want to make sure that you can please your partner and yourself in order to achieve optimum health and lifespan.

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Cheap Date Ideas

December 2nd 2009 20:10
You can go on a date with your partner and spend little to no money. You don't always have to go out to a fancy restaurant, see a movie or play, and then do whatever else you want to do. That just gets plain expensive. You can still spend a pretty afternoon with your partner riding bikes down a scenic trail.

Depending on what you're looking at spending, you can consider some of the following ideas for a cheap date.

1. Check out yard sales and local flea markets
2. Roller skating or ice skating
3. Pick fruit at a local farm and take it home to make a desert together
4. Drive in movies (typically much cheaper than going to the movie theater)
5. Bowling (many bowling allies will have a discounted day or time)
6. Instead of a big club, check out a small bar that may have darts and pool
7. If the fair or carnival is in town, check it out
8. Check out restaurant.com for deals at local restaurants (you can still eat fancy for cheap with a coupon)
9. Plan a date at home, go to the grocery store, and make dinner together
10. Group date at home- have a potluck dinner with friends
11. Visit a zoo
12. Go to a museum
13. Check out an art show
14. Go hiking
15. Find a local concert
16. Take a class together - pottery, karate, etc.
17. Rock climbing
18. Go to a play put on by the local theater
19. Check out the local planetarium
20. Rent a few movies from the library, Blockbuster, or Movie Gallery instead of going to the theater
21. Check out mic night at a local coffee shop
22. Check out a showing for a low-budget film (some theaters have limited showings for new low-budget films that are much cheaper than a regular theater with a box-office hit)
23. Go to the local comedy club
24. Picnic in the park
25. Go around town test driving your dream cars or house hunting for fun

There are plenty of ideas that you can do as cheap dates. Just remember that spending time it your partner is important, and whether it costs $100 or $20 for the two of you to do something together, you can make the time pleasant. The time spent together will be building stones to a better relationship.

If you live near a beach and just walk along the shore or you go out of town. Spending time with your partner is important to building a strong relationship. Many couples set a date night once a week or even just once a month, that is just the two of you- no friends and no kids. Just you and your partner.


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How You're Ruining Your Relationship?

November 28th 2009 18:32
Everyone has problems, and no one is perfect, but when it comes to a relationship, you want to make sure that you can figure out all the kinks, or at least most of them. You don't want to let your bad habits and insecurities get in the way. Correct them in order to make the relationship that much better.

1. If you have insecurities about your body, you'll show little signs of covering yourself when you're naked and your partner is around. Compliments make you nervous and uncomfortable, and you sometimes have thoughts of, 'why is he even with you." Your partner notices these things, even if you don't say anything flat out, especially if you start to withdraw sexually.

You can fix the concern by realizing that he's not being sarcastic or condescending when he tells you how beautiful he thinks you are. It's actually a good idea to go ahead and discuss the insecurity with your partner.

2. You have bad timing when bringing up sore issues that you know you and your partner argue about. You don't want your family or friends hearing these piddly arguments. Communication is very important, but when and where you communicate is just as important. If you continue to bring up sore topics when it's not the best timing, your partner will probably stop bringing you around his friends and family.

If you feel the need to bring it up around friends or family, tell him, 'hey can we talk later, something's bothering me.' Make sure that you have a save and private place to talk so that you can resolve any issues.

3. You tend to snap for little things. You don't really match the bad behavior with the punishment, so to speak. Basically, if your partner forgets to take out the trash and you go bazurk, there's a problem. It'll get to the point, where your partner won't know what to expect even if he's going to say something non-threatening and nice.

The only fix is to work on being self-aware of yourself, what you say, and how you say it. If you start to feel yourself getting frustrated or mad, walk away and think about it. Figure out why you don't care what his feelings are or why you get so angry. Has your partner done something in the past to cause you to be insecure. Try to be more calm and insightful; try 'why didn't you call?" versus "YOU DIDN'T CALL!"

4. Don't keep tabs because it shows that you feel like your partner doesn't realize or appreciate you and your contributions to the relationship. Don't pull the, "well, I went to the game last weekend, you should go to the opera this weekend," trick.

If you start to feel yourself comparing what you've done with what he's done, stop talking. Think about it, and rephrase. If you keep score, then it just provides you more ammo to win an argument, which isn't the way you should be looking at the relationship. You should never look at the relationship as to who's the better partner or who contributes the most. Just because you washed the dishes 5 nights this week, doesn't necessarily make you better, as your partner may have taken out the trash every day, cut the grass, and washed the cars. In the end, it generally evens out.

5. Don't let your past dictate your present or future. In many cases, you may blame your ex for problems you're having now. In most cases, as humans, we all repeat past problems in order to solve them, so if we feel like your partner is going to do something that your ex did that you didn't like, we will subconsciously try to come up with a solution to the old problem, which will more than likely create an issue with your current partner.

You want to take a minute to figure out if you have any issues or arguments with past partners that still bother you. If so, write them down. If your current partner does something similar, ask yourself whether or not he deserves it and if the argument is warranted. It's a good idea to tell your current partner about past ones in these situations so that together you can figure out how to improve the current relationship and to prevent blowups that are truly unwarranted and caused by past flames. Make sure that you partner understands, the only reason you're bringing up your ex is to help improve your relationship with him.



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Wait to Have Sex in a New Relationship

November 24th 2009 18:16
When starting a new relationship, and while just dating period, it's always a big question as to when to start having sex with someone. You should always wait until you're ready and you feel comfortable with the person, but you'll find that it really is a big benefit to you and the relationship to wait as long as you can.

Before taking off your chastity belt and untying the ribbon to your special package, you want to consider the benefits of waiting


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Getting Over a Breakup

November 20th 2009 17:54
No matter how you look at it most breakups suck and most are hard to get over. Even in abusive relationships or relationships that end because of an affair, one party is glad that it happened but sadness that is accompanied by the breakup no matter how or what caused the ending.

In some cases, you may know the breakup is going to happen, and in other cases you may not. It doesn't matter. Breakups just suck.... Period... End of story


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Check out The Best Dating Sites

November 16th 2009 14:31
There are dating sites for everything and anything. By choosing a dating site that best suites what you're looking for, you'll be able to best choose someone that you will be compatible with. You never know who you may find that you may not have found otherwise.

By searching the online dating field, you can find so many more people than those who you may run into on a daily basis. Your true love may be out there, and you can find him or her if you spend a little time checking out the field


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Deciding if a Guy is a Keeper

October 3rd 2009 14:31
Depending on what you're looking for in your life, you'll find that no guy is going to be 100 percent perfect, and a guy that is perfect for your best friend of 10 years, may not have the traits that makes a guy like him perfect for you.

But, you can look for a few basic traits in order to help decide if the guy you're with is a keeper or should be tossed aside for another woman to deal with


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Tips for Preparing for a Blind Date

August 29th 2009 00:39


Blind dates can be a hard thing to prepare for. They can be nerve racking because you just don't know who your friends or family members may have set you up with. Is he a nerd? Jock? Is he sweet and caring or a jerk and cold-hearted? Is he pale or tan? Flabby or toned


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