WhitneyDon't go Back to an Ex
November 11th 2010 13:14
I took my dog into the vet today for some bloodwork and a checkup for his seizures, since he's occasionally still having them while on his medications. But anyway, when I dropped him off, the receptionist asked me to put him in the back for her (they always do that because no one wants to get bit by a 7.5 pound yorkie). While back there, I saw my ex boyfriend's grandparent's dachshund. Bo is the same age as Codie, yet Bo (the Dachshund) has not aged well by any means; he's always been overweight, but now he's gray head to toe and is even fatter than the last time I saw him about 3 years ago.
Seeing Bo got me thinking about my ex, who I had pretty much just stopped talking to. When you end up in jail again over the same thing, there just comes a time when I can't help you anymore.
I went to facebook, found him, and noticed he has a youtube feed. I checked out a few videos, and the one I posted below, definitely reassured me that there was no way in Hell that I would ever go back with him. I mean, just watching the videos irritated me. His mannerisms and everything are plain aggravating. Plus, it just reminded me about the past.
When you stay with someone for three years, live with the person for about 6 months, sometimes enough is enough. I dealt with his drug addiction, mental abuse, theft, anger, blame, immaturity, and everything in-between (all except physical abuse, yes he even cheated and forced himself upon me a few times).
Enough becomes enough, yet my current boyfriend at one point in our relationship swore I would go back to that when the ex got out of jail... He's crazy... (The ex is out and can stay far away from me because I don't want any of it anymore.)
Anyway, this who situation, memories, and thoughts got me thinking... There's never really a good time to be friends with an ex. Sometimes it works out and a friendship can evolve, but depending on the relationship while together, a friendship after the breakup just isn't always a good idea.
When there are mind games, lies, and a nasty breakup, just leave it alone. Part your ways and don't look back. Sometimes it's just not worth it.
Don't go back to let your ex girlfriend cut your hair, and don't start talking to your ex boyfriend on the phone about personal issues. Just let the relationship die.
Remember why you broke up. Keep in mind that you're ex's for a reason.
Plus, it makes current spouses plain uncomfortable when you continue talking and hanging out with ex's. Always consider the other person before you consider yourself.
I went to facebook, found him, and noticed he has a youtube feed. I checked out a few videos, and the one I posted below, definitely reassured me that there was no way in Hell that I would ever go back with him. I mean, just watching the videos irritated me. His mannerisms and everything are plain aggravating. Plus, it just reminded me about the past.
When you stay with someone for three years, live with the person for about 6 months, sometimes enough is enough. I dealt with his drug addiction, mental abuse, theft, anger, blame, immaturity, and everything in-between (all except physical abuse, yes he even cheated and forced himself upon me a few times).
Enough becomes enough, yet my current boyfriend at one point in our relationship swore I would go back to that when the ex got out of jail... He's crazy... (The ex is out and can stay far away from me because I don't want any of it anymore.)
The love of my life is covered in hair and has 4 legs
When there are mind games, lies, and a nasty breakup, just leave it alone. Part your ways and don't look back. Sometimes it's just not worth it.
Don't go back to let your ex girlfriend cut your hair, and don't start talking to your ex boyfriend on the phone about personal issues. Just let the relationship die.
Remember why you broke up. Keep in mind that you're ex's for a reason.
Plus, it makes current spouses plain uncomfortable when you continue talking and hanging out with ex's. Always consider the other person before you consider yourself.
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